You've most likely heard a lot about red flags in a relationship. These include things like a lack of trust, controlling actions, past deceit, and communication issues. But what about the less visible signals that your relationship is solid and promising?
Here are several "green flags" that indicate your relationship is heading in the right direction.
1. They pay attention to the small details.
Some of the most significant gifts you can give your partner are your time and effort, rather than things that are material. When your spouse takes time to listen to what you say and recalls the details, you know they care about you and want to learn everything they can about you. Making an effort to surprise you, plan a date, or buy you a present that they believe you will appreciate shows that they are devoted to the relationship and want you to be happy. You don't have to have a flawless memory or make a great meaningful gesture every day, but making an effort to keep your partner happy builds your relationship on the path to success.
2. You're laughing more than usual.
Laughing together lifts your spirits, brightens your day, and makes you feel more connected. If you find yourself smiling at their jokes (particularly the not-so-funny ones) or even laughing together for no apparent reason, it's a sign that your relationship is flourishing.Nothing matches the instant your eyes connect and you both bust out laughing because you both know precisely what the other is thinking.
3. You enjoy being in their company.
Being in a relationship can be exciting, but it's not just the exciting times that count; it's also the dull ones. When you find yourself wanting to take an extended journey together just to be with them, or excited about going to just lie next to one other, it's an indication that your relationship is safe and comfortable. Realizing that you can be yourself while you're together and that you contribute rather than take energy from each other are all characteristics of a good relationship.
*Spending time together allows you to get to know each other better and better enjoy comfortable quiet moments. You grow being able to trust that they're the one you want by your side through life's fun and boring moments.
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